This might seem like unusual advice from a spiritual teacher. I read memes and quotes that say “Don’t care what other people think of you” portrayed like it’s enlightened thinking or spiritual badassery. It isn’t. Not caring what other people think of you cuts off a source of learning, an opportunity for growth and one …
Tag: self love
Mother’s Day Confession
There is a lot of judgment around mothering. There is great expectation because we have an idea of what mothering is, of what it should be. If we didn’t get that we feel as if something is missing. We are wounded. We judge women who do not or could not live up to that task of “being …
Things both of my husbands say about me, so they must be true.
If my first husband met my second husband… I think they would really get along. They could talk about how messy I am as a cook – that I use every spoon and fork in the process and don’t clean up as I go. They would bond over my spiritual beliefs, mocking my trust in …