Loving Perspectives

How to Fix Your Picker

“Kim divorcing Kanye.” was the headline that I saw.  My mind quickly spit out this thought, “Her picker is broken.” That’s what my mind does – discerns, makes judgments. Some of them are harsh, I know. And I don’t know Kim Kardashian. I could be wrong. But after 3 short marriages, it’s a good question …

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Loving Perspectives

The Relationship Dance

My wusband (husband, past tense) and I used to do a dance — a couple of them actually. And I don’t mean salsa or tango. I mean that we had ways of relating that perpetuated our beliefs and fears, that we kept doing over and over. I discovered my steps in the dance through therapy …

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