Loving Perspectives

The Relationship Dance

My wusband (husband, past tense) and I used to do a dance — a couple of them actually. And I don’t mean salsa or tango. I mean that we had ways of relating that perpetuated our beliefs and fears, that we kept doing over and over. I discovered my steps in the dance through therapy …

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Loving Perspectives

A To-Do List for a Happy Relationship

This is Cassie and Patrick. I married them in an orchard on a horse ranch this past September on a glorious sun-full and love-filled day. They’re gorgeous. It was gorgeous. But more than that does a happy relationship make. I am most hopeful for them however, and I’ll tell you why. They promised each other, …

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