Guidance for Young (and some old) Adults

Musings

Care What Other People Think of You

This might seem like unusual advice from a spiritual teacher. I read memes and quotes that say “Don’t care what other people think of you” portrayed like it’s enlightened thinking or spiritual badassery. It isn’t. Not caring what other people think of you cuts off a source of learning, an opportunity for growth and one …

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Loving Perspectives

Don’t Set an Intention…Yet.

Wait! Before you make a resolution, set an intention or bust out those scissors for a vision board, check this! Is your resolution a punishment?  Does your intention insult who you are now? Are you coming from a place of desperation and unwittingly validating your fears? Are you perpetuating the belief that you are not …

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Musings

Secret Wedding Ingredients

“There wasn’t a single guest who didn’t comment on how much they loved our ceremony, and how much they loved you!” wrote the groom in a wedding that I officiated recently. I am flattered and often floored by the comments I receive after a wedding, by the guests who grab my arm on my way …

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