My wusband (husband, past tense) and I used to do a dance — a couple of them actually. And I don’t mean salsa or tango. I mean that we had ways of relating that perpetuated our beliefs and fears, that we kept doing over and over. I discovered my steps in the dance through therapy …
Category: Loving Perspectives
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Sometimes I find my Self. Genderless, ageless, faceless. Without a story or a past. Just here. “Oh look, I’m living this life now,” it thinks. I recently heard an interview with Adyashanti where he suggested that we ask, “What is it that is looking through my eyes?” I have no answer that I can express …
Why I Am Not Praying for You
When I was married to a drinking alcoholic I used to pray that he would stop drinking. It seemed like a logical thing to pray for — like it would solve many of “our” problems. Our relationship landed me in Al-Anon, thankfully. One day in a meeting I had a realization that although I believed …